The EFT Starter Kit
Welcome to your journey of emotional transmutation.
If you have already downloaded the Emovere
Cards, please pause before diving straight into them. I highly recommend
taking some time to practice with the professional EFT (Emotional Freedom
Technique) videos listed below first. Getting comfortable with the physical
technique on more generalized patterns will prepare you for the deeper, more
specific work later. Once you feel ready, scroll down to the Emovere Section.
The Science of Tapping
Before you begin, it helps to understand exactly what you
are doing. Clinical research, spearheaded by experts like Dr. Peta Stapleton,
has demonstrated through rigorous studies and percentages that EFT is
frequently more successful—and acts much faster—than many traditional talk
therapies.
But why does it work? It comes down to neuroscience. Words
are not just sounds; they are biological commands. By speaking specific truths
while physically tapping on meridian points, you are sending a calming signal
directly to the amygdala (the brain's fear center).
You are actively interrupting old emotional guarding and creating a brand new neural pathway in your belief system. You are
telling your body it is safe to change.
Getting Started: Trust Your Pull
Your mind and your eyes are always trying to guide you
toward healing. When you start your EFT journey, simply browse the videos below
and click on the ones you feel an intuitive pull towards.
These are the practitioners who have profoundly helped me on
my own journey. Their content is incredible. If you want to feel less anxious,
less triggered, and more grounded in your daily life, these are the people to
help you do it.
(Note: Of course, if you genuinely love being triggered
and prefer spending lots of money on things to cover up unhealed trauma instead
of clearing it, that is entirely your free will!)
The Next Level: Intuition and AI
Once you have tapped along with the pros and cleared out
some of the inherited conditions, survival instincts, and programs you
developed from life, you will create space. In that space, you will finally be
able to hear your own intuition clearly.
You will start to notice your own specific, unhealed
patterns. When you do, you can use AI to write a custom EFT tapping sequence to
transmute that subjective pain into an objective truth.
For example: You might realize you are actively
neglecting your own physical comfort in the clothing you wear because of an
inherited family or spiritual belief that "comfort equals laziness."
If you no longer want to carry this ancestral pattern, you can use EFT to help
your mind feel safe while making the change. Remember, these beliefs are part
of your unconscious mind. They run automatically. It can be hurtful to realize
that you are not these programs, yet they have been running your life—and often
not for the better. Tapping allows you to rewrite the code.
Disclaimer: Do not take this information as a replacement
for medical advice. Always consult a medical professional before attempting to
carry out these practices. By proceeding, you decide to take full
responsibility for what happens as a result of doing
this work.
The Emovere Section
If you were curious about the Emovere
Cards, these are a tool of my own invention that I created to see the
hidden parts of myself that were causing me pain. (Please use them at your
own risk).
Not everything in life is simply "happy" or
"sad." There are 72 baseline emotions. When we achieve coherent
alignment with our emotions and understand the reasons behind our archetypal
dynamics, we can transition into a much higher level of emotional ease. These
cards will help you begin to truly learn about yourself as a human being.
How to Use the Emovere Cards
- Prepare
your deck: Print out the cards using your printer. Ensure the print
quality is high enough so you can clearly make out the small writing. Cut
them out. You can stick them to blank cardstock if you wish, but standard
paper works fine.
- Shuffle:
Shuffle the cards well.
- Prime
the body: Begin to tap through the meridian points, just as you
learned from practicing with the pro videos above.
- Draw:
Intuitively pick out one single card from the deck.
- Observe:
Look closely at the card. Whatever specific word or phrase your eye is
drawn to first—write that down. This is the exact piece of information you
need to understand right now.
- Connect
the Memory: Begin tapping again. Look at what you just wrote down and
ask yourself: "What memory do I have about this?" When
the memory surfaces, write it down next to the trigger.
Creating Your Custom Sequence
Now, open an AI platform (like Gemini or Perplexity) and
type in a prompt combining your card data and your memory.
Use this template as an example:
"I want to do a full EFT tapping sequence that has 6
rounds for this emotion and its causes:
- Emotion
Category: SADNESS -> DISAPPOINTED -> DISMAYED.*
- The
specific point of trigger from the card: Externalising all blame or
collapsing into total self-blame instead of shared accountability.*
- My
specific memory: I was always blamed as a child. I was the scapegoat,
so I learned to blame everyone else so I could call this 'love' when it
isn't, and I am ready to let this go now."*
This is an example of using gemini how its
looks:
It makes complete sense why your system is holding onto this pattern. When
we grow up in an environment where we are blamed for everything, and where
our caretakers blame the world, our young brains learn to associate blame
with connection and love. It feels like the only way to stay safe and
loved. Untangling love from blame takes real courage, and it is completely
normal to feel afraid of letting that coping mechanism go.
- Below
is a full, 6-round EFT Tapping script designed to honor
these heavy emotions, unpack the family conditioning, and gently guide
your system toward safe, shared accountability.
- Before
you begin, take a deep breath. Rate the intensity of your sadness,
disappointment, and dismay on a scale from 0 to 10 (with 10 being the most
intense).
- The
Setup Statement
- Tap
the Karate Chop (KC) point on the side of your hand continuously
while repeating this statement three times:
- "Even
though I feel this deep sadness, disappointment, and dismay, and I am
stuck between externalizing blame and collapsing into total self-blame
because I learned that blame equals love, I deeply and completely accept
myself anyway.
- Even
though I am terrified that if I stop blaming, I won't be loved anymore, I honor how hard my system has worked to keep me safe.
- Even
though this old blueprint is so painful, I accept who I am, and I am open
to a new way of experiencing love and accountability."
- Round
1: Acknowledging the Present Emotions
- Tap
5–7 times on each point while speaking the words aloud:
- Eyebrow
(EB): All this heavy sadness in my chest.
- Side
of Eye (SE): This deep disappointment.
- Under
Eye (UE): Feeling so dismayed by these cycles.
- Under
Nose (UN): This overwhelming weight of sadness.
- Chin
(Ch): The disappointment of being stuck in this loop.
- Collarbone
(CB): All this dismay and emotional exhaustion.
- Under
Arm (UA): Carrying these heavy feelings for so long.
- Top
of Head (TH): This sadness, disappointment, and dismay.
- Round
2: The Roots of the Blame
- Targeting
the childhood conditioning:
- EB:
I was always blamed for everything growing up.
- SE:
It was always my fault in that house.
- UE:
And my parents blamed the entire world, too.
- UN:
Blame was the language of my family.
- Ch:
No one ever took healthy responsibility.
- CB:
It was either all my fault, or the world's fault.
- UA:
I absorbed their way of surviving.
- TH:
This old conditioning of constant, heavy blame.
- Round
3: Blame Misidentified as Love
- Targeting
the belief that blame equals connection:
- EB:
Somewhere along the line, I believed this is love.
- SE:
If they blamed me, at least they were looking at me.
- UE:
If I blame others, I am just doing what my parents did.
- UN:
This twisted, painful definition of love.
- Ch:
Confusing finger-pointing with true emotional connection.
- CB:
Believing that love means carrying the fault.
- UA:
My brain wired blame and love together.
- TH:
This deep-rooted belief that blame equals love.
- Round
4: The Core Fear of Letting Go
- Targeting
the fear that stopping blame means losing love:
- EB:
I am terrified to stop blaming.
- SE:
If I stop blaming, will I lose love completely?
- UE:
If I don't collapse into self-blame, who am I?
- UN:
I’m afraid that if I change, I won't be loved anymore.
- Ch:
This intense fear of abandonment.
- CB:
Holding onto blame because it feels safe and familiar.
- UA:
Fear that letting go of blame means letting go of connection.
- TH:
This deep fear of being unloved if I step out of the cycle.
- Round
5: Shifting to Shared Accountability
- Beginning
to soften the extremes:
- EB:
What if there is another way to exist?
- SE:
I don't have to externalize all the blame to protect myself.
- UE:
And I don't have to collapse into total self-blame either.
- UN:
It doesn't have to be all or nothing anymore.
- Ch:
It is safe to look at things with nuance.
- CB:
I can step into shared accountability.
- UA:
I don't have to carry 100% of the fault, and neither does the world.
- TH:
Softening this rigid survival pattern right now.
- Round
6: Reclaiming True Love and Safety
- Integrating
new, healthy boundaries:
- EB:
I am safe to separate love from blame.
- SE:
Blame wasn't love; it was just their unresolved pain.
- UE:
I can be loved just for who I am, without the fingers pointing.
- UN:
Releasing the fear of being unloved as I heal.
- Ch:
I choose real love, built on mutual respect and accountability.
- CB:
Releasing the sadness, disappointment, and dismay from my body.
- UA:
Stepping into true emotional freedom and peace.
- TH:
I am worthy of love, and I am safe to let the blame go.
- Take
another deep breath. Inhale slowly through your nose,
and exhale fully through your mouth. Check back in with your body
and your emotions. Note the intensity level of your sadness and fear now
compared to when you started. If the feelings still feel heavy, you can
repeat rounds 3 and 4 until your nervous system feels settled.
Share the Healing
You do not have to do this alone. You can offer this
sequence to your partner for them to use. They can easily adapt the generated
words to suit their own experiences and shadows.
This process allows you to actually feel
the hurt, validate it, and transmute your pain so it never controls you again.
Gone are the days of misery.
FEEL IT and LIVE!